Have you been feeling stuck or unsatisfied lately? If so, it may be because you haven't found your life's purpose. Your life’s purpose can help guide you toward the person you want to be and lead you to a happy life! It’s never too late to start looking for a purpose (after all, it can change over time). [1]
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Expert Source
Nicolette Tura, MA
Empowerment Coach
Expert Interview. 23 January 2020.
Check out these easy and efficient ways to find your purpose in life and be the best version of yourself.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Keep in mind that you may find your purpose in the least likely of places. Sometimes, the best lessons and places for self-discovery are in the journey rather than the destination.Thanks
- Sometimes, it’s easier to know what you don't want than what you want. If you need to, start by listing what you don’t want to do (or be), then work toward figuring out what you do want.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- They say it takes 10,000 hours of practice to master something, so if you aren't good at something and you think it's your purpose in life to pursue it, don't let it stop you! Start practicing and you'll soon be good enough to make that your life's work.
- Courage is not the absence of fear; it's taking action despite fear. If you know what you want and you're not taking the first step, realize that's on you. You must be the one to take the jump into the deep end, so don't hesitate!
- Picture how you'd spend your time if you had infinite money and no responsibilities. That's probably a good hint as to what your purpose is in life!
Expert Interview
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References
- ↑ Nicolette Tura, MA. Empowerment Coach. Expert Interview. 23 January 2020.
- ↑ Kamal Ravikant. Author, Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It. Expert Interview. 2 December 2019.
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/introspection-self-reflection/
- ↑ Adam Dorsay, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist & TEDx Speaker. Expert Interview. 11 April 2019.
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2018/11/20/where-americans-find-meaning-in-life/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6923189/
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2019/10/08/five-reasons-why-you-need-a-personal-vision-statement-and-how-to-write-one/?sh=6c4b6eab1ab5
- ↑ Adam Dorsay, PsyD. Licensed Psychologist & TEDx Speaker. Expert Interview. 11 April 2019.
- ↑ Nicolette Tura, MA. Empowerment Coach. Expert Interview. 23 January 2020.
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3559433/
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/10/well/the-power-of-positive-people.html
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/comfort-zone/
- ↑ https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentID=4552&ContentTypeID=1
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2016/01/what-having-a-growth-mindset-actually-means
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/200809/the-path-unconditional-self-acceptance
- ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/self-care-4-ways-nourish-body-soul-2017111612736
- ↑ https://www.wcsu.edu/community-engagement/benefits-of-volunteering/
About This Article
If you feel like you’re struggling to find your purpose in life, write down the things in your professional or personal life that you enjoy doing so you have a clear idea of your passions. You should also try asking yourself questions to find out what makes you happy, like “When was I happiest in my life?” or “Which qualities do I admire most in others?”. To get help answering these questions, try asking close friends what they think your strengths and talents are, which will help you determine what you’re good at. Additionally, try to do activities that put you outside your comfort zone or pose you with new challenges, since it will be easier to see your place in the world when you look at it from a new angle. Once you’ve identified a goal that would help you reach your purpose in life, like changing your career, write down a series of smaller steps to help you get there. For tips from our co-author on how to use backward planning to find out what you want from life, keep reading!
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