Download Article
Download Article
Even though shy teenaged boys can be tough to figure out, there are signs and signals that you can learn to spot to see if one likes you. Being shy doesn't mean that they won't give off any information, it just might be harder to interpret or notice. By watching his behavior and body language, getting to know him, and interacting with him, you can get a better idea of whether or not a shy guy likes you!
Steps
-
Catch him glancing at you. If a shy guy likes you, he might be afraid to talk to you. Instead, he will probably try to steal some glances in your direction. If you notice him looking at you, he will look away as quickly as possible. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you. In fact, it can mean just the opposite. [1] X Expert Source Joshua Pompey
Relationship Expert Expert Interview. 27 November 2019. -
Notice him light up when he sees you. If he likes you, he might light up when you come around. Look for a smile and a twinkle in his eyes when he sees you. This might mean that he likes you, especially if he doesn't react this way when other people come around. [2] X Research sourceAdvertisement
-
Take note of awkward interactions. If he likes you, he will probably be nervous around you. If he seems especially awkward around you (dropping things, stumbling over his words) it might mean he likes you. [3] X Research source
- You can help ease his awkwardness by giving him your undivided attention.
- Also, avoid laughing at him if he drops something or stumbles over his words.
Advertisement
Quiz
wikiHow Quiz: Does My Crush Like Me?
-
Notice him saying "hi" to you. If a shy guy likes you, he might not be able to walk right up to you and start a conversation. Instead, he might only be able to say hello. If he waves at you, nods, or musters a quiet "hi" (especially if he's not doing this for other people), he might have the hots for you. [4] X Research source
-
Talk with him on social media. Fortunately for shy guys, talking in person isn't the only way to communicate. If he tries to communicate with you on social media (or by text message, email, or paper notes), even if he doesn't talk with you much in person, it could be a good sign. [5] X Research source
-
Don't be upset if he talks to your friends. If you are standing around with a group of friends and this shy guy walks up and starts talking to them, it could actually be a good sign. It is possible that he is just working up the courage to talk to you by talking to you friends. [6] X Research source
-
Give him your full attention. When he does try to talk to you (or ask you out), pay full attention to him. It might be very difficult for him to start interacting with you one-on-one, so try to be patient and focused for him! Remember: if he is awkward it probably just means he is nervous. [7] X Research source You show you are paying attention to him by:
- Nodding when he speaks.
- Maintaining eye contact.
- Providing verbal cues (things like "sure," "yeah," "totally").
- Responding when it's your turn to speak.
- Avoiding looking at your phone.
Advertisement
-
Watch him recall specific details. If a shy guy really likes you, he won't make grand gestures of affection. Instead, he will show that he likes you in small, sweet ways. For instance, he might remember details about you and things that you tell him. This shows that you stand out to him and he cares about you! [8] X Research source
-
Notice him stick up for you. If a shy guy likes you, you might catch him standing up for you. If your friends tease you or say something rude about you (even if they are joking), he might quietly say they are wrong. [9] X Research source
- He might say, "I don't think Jaime acts that way." He might say, "That's not true," or "That's not how I see it."
-
Hear him getting teased by his friends. If a high school guy likes you, chances are his friends already know. (Maybe he told them, or maybe they can just tell.) If his friends start teasing him and giving him a hard time when you come around, it might mean that he's into you. [10] X Research source
Advertisement
Expert Q&A
Search
-
QuestionHow do you know if a guy likes you secretly in school?Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.If they make a lot of eye contact and they smile a lot when they're talking to you, it's a good sign they're interested in you. The biggest sign is if they go out of their way to physically touch you, though. Little brushes on your elbow, shoulder, or back are a huge sign that they like you, so look out for those!
-
QuestionCan I tell if a guy is falling in love in me just by the way he looks at me?Community AnswerIf he looks at you often and in a dreamy/loving way, it could be a good sign. But it's only one sign. How does he talk to you? Are there other signals that he may be into you?
-
QuestionIs it normal to have a crush on two guys?Community AnswerYes. It happens all the time.
Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
Advertisement
Tips
Submit a Tip
All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
Name
Please provide your name and last initial
Thanks for submitting a tip for review!
Warnings
- Do not try to stalk him. This will only make him feel insecure and stay away from you furthermore. He may even develop a harsh attitude and not even realize it. Try not to do stalk him or have your friends stalk him. His feelings will be crushed and chances of being around him are near zero.Thanks
- Some shy guys despise sarcasm and personal jokes. Shy guys tend to like people that are loyal and mean what they say.Thanks
Advertisement
References
- ↑ Joshua Pompey. Relationship Expert. Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.
- ↑ http://www.ranker.com/list/signs-a-shy-guy-likes-you/michael-grimes
- ↑ https://www.amoramargo.com/en/how-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you/
- ↑ http://www.ranker.com/list/signs-a-shy-guy-likes-you/michael-grimes
- ↑ https://www.amoramargo.com/en/how-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you/
- ↑ https://www.amoramargo.com/en/how-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you/
- ↑ http://www.ranker.com/list/signs-a-shy-guy-likes-you/michael-grimes
- ↑ http://www.ranker.com/list/signs-a-shy-guy-likes-you/michael-grimes
- ↑ https://www.amoramargo.com/en/how-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you/
About This Article
Article Summary
X
It can be hard to tell if a shy guy likes you in high school, but even shy guys have telltale signs. For example, if you catch him glancing at you more often than other people, it’s probably because he’s interested in you. He might also act extra awkwardly around you, like stumbling on his words or fidgeting a lot. If he talks to you on social media or text, but doesn’t talk to you much in person, this might be because he likes you but he’s too shy to approach you. Other signs to look out for are him remembering little details about your life and agreeing with you a lot. For more tips, including how to make conversations easier for a shy guy, read on!
Did this summary help you?
Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 210,388 times.
Reader Success Stories
- "I am glad that I found this site, now I know my crush also likes me because I looked at these signs and he does all of these all the time. I am actually happy that my crush likes me, too." ..." more
Advertisement
80%
of readers found this article helpful
.
Click a star to add your vote
% of people told us that this article helped them.
"I am glad that I found this site, now I know my crush also likes me because I looked at these signs and he does all of these all the time. I am actually happy that my crush likes me, too."
..."
more
"I like this guy, but he likes someone else, so I just accept it and keep being friends with him. He is one of my best friends, and he always talks to me after school."
..."
more
"It's helped in many ways. Now I will feel more confident when I see him."
"It was quite interesting, but true. Out of a 10 I'll rate it 8.7."
