19 Tips to Spice Things up in the Bedroom

To spice up your sex life, try creating a romantic mood, such as by placing candles in the bedroom or sprinkling a trail of rose petals to the bed. You should also take time to plan dates with your partner, like a candlelit dinner or a walk at sunset, since experiencing new things together is a great way to increase passion. When you want to be a bit more adventurous in the bedroom, try buying a different kind of sexy lingerie, like leather, lace, or feathers, which will add a bit of surprise to your sex life. If you want to try playing with toys, find a sex shop to go to with your partner and pick out things you find interesting, like handcuffs, gags, or whips. Alternatively, consider adding food to your sex life, such as edible lotions or underwear. For tips from our Relationship co-author on how to make your sex life more spontaneous, read on!