14 Ways to Look and Act Confident (Even When You Don’t Feel That Way)

Be your most confident self with these expert-approved tips

Are you feeling unsure of yourself? If you are, know that you’re not alone. Everyone (even the most confident-seeming people) doubts themselves every now and then. At the end of the day, we’re all faking it till we make it! Whether you have a big job interview coming up or want to build up the courage to ask out your crush, we’ve got your back. Read on for expert-backed tips from life coaches and an empowerment expert to help you look and feel more confident.

How to Be More Confident

  • Stand up straight with your shoulders back and head held high to give off a confident and powerful aura.
  • Maintain eye contact with others to display confidence and show you’re engaged in the conversation.
  • Smile often to appear happy and speak clearly to display confidence.
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Stand tall.

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    Keep your chin level, with your face pointed straight ahead. Walk like you own the world, even if you don't feel like you do. Doing this can help you look poised and confident. [1]
    • Pretend you’re hanging from a string attached to the top of your head. [2]
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Make eye contact.

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    Maintaining eye contact while you’re talking, as well as when another person talks, is a sign of confidence and interest. [3] Avoid checking your phone, staring at the floor, or scanning the room, which can make you appear rude, anxious, or uncomfortable. [4] Try to keep eye contact for at least half of your interaction. [5]
    • As a start, try to make eye contact with someone long enough to find out what color eyes they have. [6]
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Be still.

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    Try standing with your feet hip-width apart so you can balance your weight between both legs. [7] This can help you from shifting your weight, fidgeting, or tapping your feet.
    • Keep your legs balanced even when you're sitting. You may appear anxious if your legs are twisted around or tapping.
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Take up space.

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    Avoid leaning forward in your chair or tucking your arms under your armpits. Instead, be expansive and fill out the space around you. This is called power posing. Studies have shown that people who power-posed before interviews felt and came across as more confident. [8] Here are a few simple power poses to try:
    • When sitting down, lean back in your chair and use the armrests if they're available.
    • Stand with your legs shoulder-width apart and place your hands on your hips.
    • Lean against walls instead of slouching. This will unconsciously make it appear as though you own the wall or room.
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Use open body language.

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    While standing or sitting, keep your hands mostly still. To display confident body language, keep the front of your face and body open instead of closing them off from others. Here are a few suggestions: [9]
    • Clasp your palms together behind your back or head.
    • Stick your hands in your pockets, but show your thumbs.
    • Steeple your fingers together and rest your elbows on a table. This is a very assertive position, best used for negotiations, interviews, and meetings.
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Shake hands firmly.

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    Extend your hand to offer the handshake as you approach someone. Grip the other person's hand firmly but not painfully. Pump up and down slightly for 2 or 3 seconds, then release. [10]
    • If you get sweaty palms, keep a tissue in your pocket and discreetly wipe your hand before you offer it.
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Make small, occasional hand gestures.

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    Emphasizing every word with a hand gesture can come across as anxious or energetic, depending on your culture. Go with occasional, controlled gestures instead. Keep your arms at waist level and make most of your gestures within that space to make you look more credible and professional. [11]
    • Use an open, relaxed palm in social contexts. A rigid palm or fist is very aggressive or dominant, typically used by politicians.
    • Keep your elbows at your side, and gesture with your hands slightly to one side to avoid blocking your body.
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Speak slowly and clearly.

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    If you tend to jumble words in an attempt to rush through what you're saying, especially when you’re nervous, slow down. Taking a breath before you speak gives you time to plan your response, making you appear more relaxed and confident. [12]
    • As empowerment expert Nicolette Tura explains, “Nerves are when you're not present, and you're not trusting, and you're not surrendering, and you're not allowing, which blocks the flow of your breath. So, what can you do to address nerves? Breathe.” [13]
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Smile often.

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    Studies have shown that people like and remember other people who smile at them. [14] As life coach Sandra Possing explains, “When you smile, it changes your brain chemistry, and you will feel happier as a result.” [15]
    • If you have trouble keeping a natural smile, just give a brief smile and return to a more neutral expression.
    • Laughter is another good way to display and boost confidence when appropriate. However, avoid a constant giggle, which can come across as nervous or overbearing.
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Stop apologizing.

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    If you constantly apologize, even for trivial things, do your best to break the cycle. When you catch yourself saying, “I’m sorry,” ask yourself why—why are you apologizing? It may be necessary to apologize in certain situations, but you don’t have to apologize for being yourself. [16]
    • For instance, say you have a question during a work meeting; rather than saying, “I’m sorry, but can you clarify…?” try, “Can you clarify…?” This response shows that you’re confident in your question.
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Treat others with respect.

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    Respect others to show that you’re a confident individual. Treating others with respect shows that you value them as people, you're not threatened by them, and you're confident in who you are. Instead of gossiping about someone, avoid engaging in the drama. This shows that you're comfortable with your own opinions and beliefs. [17]
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Look your best to feel your best.

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    Take good care of yourself to feel confident in your own skin. Your hygiene, attire, and health are all worth the effort, and not just for yourself, but for others as well. First impressions are very powerful, and looking sharp can help you appear confident right away. Plus, if you look confident on the outside, it can help boost your self-esteem so you feel confident on the inside. [18]
    • This isn’t to say you must look a certain way to appear confident. Simply wear what you want to wear to feel your best!
    • Spend time each day pampering yourself to boost your confidence.
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Appreciate yourself for who you are.

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    Learn to love yourself build self-confidence . Confidence and power come from within you, so build your confidence by loving yourself. Remember, you are a special, talented person, and plenty of people want to see you thrive. [19]
    • If you're struggling to believe in or love yourself, make a list of your accomplishments and greatest attributes.
    • Leah Morris, a life and relationship transition coach, suggests telling yourself positive affirmations in the mirror. Try saying how “You're going to nail this; you're going to be fine at the end of all this; everything is happening just as it should for you; you're smart; you're capable.” [20]
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Learn to manage your fear.

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    People who lack confidence are often afraid of making a mistake. When you start to doubt yourself, remind yourself of how strong you are. Everyone makes mistakes, but it’s how you come back from them that really matters.
    • Instead of looking at a mistake as a failure, look at it as an opportunity to learn and grow. [21]
    • Try deep breathing exercises to help calm your nerves in the moment and appear more confident. [22]
    • Start a journal to put stressful and anxious thoughts on paper. [23]
    • Practice meditating and mindfulness to help boost your self-esteem and ease stress. [24]
    • Reader Poll: We asked 1014 wikiHow readers, and 55% said that being in a group of new people causes them a lot of stress or anxiety. [Take Poll] So if you also experience those feelings when you’re meeting new people, you’re definitely not alone!
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    Pay attention to your posture and make sure you stand up tall with your shoulders back. That way, you'll feel really confident.
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      To make people think you’re confident, stand tall with your shoulders pulled back and your head held high, since insecure people tend to slouch and look downwards. You should also try to stand still, since moving from foot to foot or tapping your feet are signs of nervousness. Additionally, shake hands firmly and smile when you talk to indicate confidence. When you're talking to others, speak slowly and clearly rather than rushing, which may cause you to stumble over your words. For tips on how to modify your lifestyle so you can be as confident as possible, read on!

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