Is there a guy in your life who’s giving you mixed signals? One day you two are hanging out and having the best time, and the next day you can’t get ahold of him at all. Why would he keep coming back into your life if he doesn’t want to commit to you? While all guys are different, there are some common reasons why he may be stringing you along, either intentionally or unintentionally. In this article, we’ll list the reasons why he keeps coming back into your life, as well as some ways you can deal with him once and for all.
Things You Should Know
- He may be giving you mixed signals because he’s afraid of commitment or he doesn’t know what he wants.
- It’s possible that he’s using you, either for sex, validation, or attention.
- If he’s your ex, he may be trying to win you back.
- He could be toxic, controlling, or playing games with your feelings.
Steps
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- You deserve someone who makes you feel great about yourself. If this guy continues to give you mixed signals and red flags, it’s time to move on.Thanks
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